“Celebrating” my birthday in an eclectic manner. Now I’m journeying along the North-South highway from Kuala Lumpur to Singapore. Earlier I attended Ann’s wedding and met up with several uni friends of more than 20 years.

Baskin Robbins at Pagoh highway stop

The last time I had a traveling birthday, I think, was in 2010 when I flew back to Bethlehem from Dallas after my job interview at Texas A&M-Commerce. The flight was supposed to be on the 24th but was canceled due to bad weather and I ended up spending part of my birthday at Holiday Inn Express DFW.

Wintery wetland

I don’t remember it ever been so cold for so long in Singapore – below 22C for several days now. It’s nice, I like it.

One of my new year goals was to — Not do any office work during the weekend, and not feel guilty about it. Unfortunately, this weekend I had planned to do some work but ended not doing it anyway, and felt a lot of guilt because of that. Pretty much spoiled my weekend…blah 🙁

I love books!


Today I moved the bookshelf from the living room to my “dry” room (room with dehumidifier). The pages of some of the books are beginning to stick together in this humid weather.


Based on my collection of cookbooks, I must be a domestic goddess! Or a domestic book collecting goddess 😛 I really like the Culinaria series of “coffee table” cookbooks. The most used cookbook is probably Momofuku for the kimchi and ginger-scallion sauce recipe. Some books like the French Laundry and Bouchon Bakery are nice to read but I will never attempt to use those recipes. Good as occasional bedtime reading material.


Some books are directly relevant to my work, like my books on writing. I think that copy of the Elements of Style was from the time I was working at MPH.


And some books are somewhat relevant to my work – books that inspire creativity or productivity.



Then there are those fun books. I like reading graphic novels. Over and over again.


Or books in the things that I’m currently interested in. I’m a firm believer that you can learn pretty much anything via books. You can even learn to train to run a marathon from a book. Or learn to be a semi-expert in taking care of pets. I forgot to take a picture of my ukulele books. I think that’s one of few areas that I didn’t learn to do well via reading 😀



And books in areas that I was once interested in. One time I was interested in making my own clothes. I think I have the capacity to be good in that. But I would need to get a sewing machine which I wasn’t prepared to invest in one. The interest died down soon after that.

I was also interested in movie making and photography. But those interests did not last long. Probably these are areas that you can only get better at from deliberate practice.

Anyway, all the books have been moved into the dry room.


Keeping Duhville alive!

One day will earn me a lot of money. I foresee a movie, possibly an animated movie or a comedy, with that name coming out in the next 10 years. And I’ll share the hundreds of thousands with my brother.

Meanwhile I just need to keep this alive.

I want a nice office chair

I’ve had this office chair since May 2006. A student was moving out and I bought it from her for $10. It was alright initially but soon the cushion wore off. It also never supported my back well. Lately, my back has been feeling strained and tired. Time for a new chair but good office chairs are not cheap.

I was attracted to this Staples Vocazo (mesh back with lumbar support), but it costs $99. Even with the $25 discount coupon that I received from Staples, it’s still more than what I’m willing to pay.

Then this week, the Staples store offered this nice microfiber task chair called Mullen for $69 (original price $129). The cushion looks so thick and comfy. But still too expensive.

There’s also this Staples Manilo leather manager chair for $39. But the reviews were really bad for this particular chair.

I decided my back comfort will have to wait a little longer till I’m in a better financial position.

Anyway I finally got verbal permission from the Salvation Army thrift store (YAY!!), so now I could start working on my research. Today, I went to the thrift store to get some research work done and guess what I saw?

This nice used office chair for $16! The tag said that it has been sanitized but I actually saw a big piece of cracker/biscuit in one of the crevices. Even so, $16 is a good deal. So now I am sitting comfortably in my “new” office chair….aahhhh….

I guess waiting pays.

Maybe I’ll donate the old chair back to the thrift store…

Deep Freeze

It’s been really cold the past few days. The temperature dropped to -17C but because of the windchill, it felt like -24C.

I normally turn off the heater in my room when I sleep. I do that because:
1) to save electricity, save money
2) the air gets really dry when the heater is turned on
3) since my bed is near the heater, I’m afraid my blanket might fall on the heater and catch fire.

But because the heater is off, it gets really cold in the room especially when the temperature is -17C outside.

From Cha-plang photos

For those really cold nights, in order to sleep comfortably and “warmly,” I use:
a) a cotton blanket folded in half (2 layers)
b) a fleece blanket (1 layer)
c) a polyester fiber-filled comforter in a flannel comforter cover (3 layers).

By the way, I was also wearing three t-shirts.

From Cha-plang photos

Whenever it is cold outside, water vapor will condense on the cold window inside the apartment…like the water droplets on the outside of an ice-cold glass of water.

From Cha-plang photos

The past two mornings when I woke up, I found ice on the window….not ice outside the apartment but ice on the window inside my room!

From Cha-plang photos

Thankfully, the deep freeze is coming to an end.

First snow of 2009

From Cha-plang photos

The first “major” snow of 2009 here.

It was nice and warm in the apartment but I decided to go out for a very short walk anyway. Took some photos, which was not easy to do with snow flakes falling everywhere.

I didn’t want to totally lose the fuzzy feeling for snow. It’s nice for a short while then reality kicks in and I have to dig out my car and walk around in slushy dirty roads.

I think the most magical moment is when thick fluffy snow is falling and you’re traveling in a car. The snowflakes look like they are suspended in mid air, and then your car hits them.

Max in the Adirondacks

From Max in the Adirondacks

I started this Max in the Adirondacks cross-stitch project in 2004. The first summer that I was home in 2004, I took this back and was working on it (off and on) for three months. I like Max in the Adirondacks because the cat and fishing gears remind me of my dad.

From Max in the Adirondacks

At times I wondered why I chose this extremely elaborate and difficult piece. It seems it’ll never get done. After that summer, when things got busy at school, I put it aside and sort of forgot about it.

From Max in the Adirondacks

I pulled it out several days ago and started to work on it again. I guess the frustration of not being able to get things done for my dissertation makes me want to do plug away at something, anything, just to see something being completed.

From Max in the Adirondacks


During my last two trips to visit the Cheah family, I’ve been exposed to some good dogsitting experiences. Since I’m staying in a no-animals allowed student housing, it’s nice to hangout with other people’s pets once in a while. When I found out that a friend is looking for someone to co-dog-plus-house-sit with her. Her advisor will be away and needed someone to take care of the two dogs but my friend couldn’t stay the entire duration, so I agreed to help out for a few days.

I thought it would be a nice de-stressing vacation, in addition, the prof’s house is considerably nearer to the Korean grocery store and the nice chinese buffet.

For several days prior to my dogsitting commitment, I thought I would not be able to make it because my car was in the garage. Thankfully the car was ready on time.

From Harleysville
From Harleysville

On Sunday (Dec 28, 08), I made the almost an hour drive to the prof’s house, which was in the middle of nowhere. After checking in on the dogs, I drove to the chinese buffet for lunch.

From Good Food: Bad Photos
From Good Food: Bad Photos
From Good Food: Bad Photos

The food was good, unfortunately they didn’t serve the black bean mussels and cheese-baked mussels, which were the two items I was really looking forward to.

From Harleysville
From Harleysville

The dogs, Jack, the black Labrador, and Harry, the white spotted dog, were quite adorable. They were always excited to see me whenever I came back to the house. Honestly, I’ve never had anyone look so excited to see me every time I walked into the house. I guess that’s why people have pet dogs.

From Harleysville

Harry is also a very good companion when I’m either watching TV or doing some reading.

Unfortunately, he was too used to always being with a human person. I sort of decided that I didn’t want the dogs in the bedroom, so I locked them out of the room that I slept in. They had the rest of the big house to themselves but Harry was not happy with that arrangement. He whined and barked, off and on, throughout the two nights I was there! I could have let the dogs in but I didn’t want to give in to them. If you watch the movie Marley and Me, you’ll see the miserable sleep I had for those two nights.

After a sleepless night, I had to wake up at around 6am to let the dogs out! Crazy dog schedule.

One more thing, I couldn’t get online while I was there. That was the biggest routine buster of all. Fortunately, there was a treadmill in the house, so I was able to squeeze in a run each evening.

From Good Food: Bad Photos

On the last day, I went for another round of chinese buffet. This time they had the black bean mussels but the mussels were small. I also bought a carload full of groceries. So the money I earned from dogsitting all went into the groceries and buffet lunches.

“Happy” New Year

It isn’t really a happy new year.

My car started making rattling sound before Christmas, so I sent it to the mechanic and was told that the alternator would have to be changed. I was without my car during Christmas eve and Christmas day so I couldn’t attend the Christmas eve service in church but thankfully a friend gave me a ride to another friend’s place for Christmas day dinner.

Then came the car repair bill! 🙁

After that came my dog and house-sitting days just prior to the new year, which was more stressful than I thought it would be.

And all this time, at the back of my mind, was the pressure of still not getting the permission letters from the two retail stores so that I can get my research started. What I thought would only require 1 month is taking something like 3 months (or more) to get. As of today, still no letters.

I guess it’s understandable that I am not really in the mood to write anything here.